Life Is How You Make It episode 5

Life Is How You Make It. 👆🏽

Episode 5

She gave me a three months grace period to to get pregnant if not she would find a replacement for my husband. This became another head aching issue for me. Due to the pressure from my mother in-law, my husband also started behaving strange towards me. His concern was that, the doctor asserted that premature ejaculation was not the same as low sperm count hence there should be pregnancy. He began to blame me for not being productive(meanwhile tests showed I was). He was a contractor who works with with a building construction firm. Their work was such that, they work when they got a contract. So when there is no contract, they remain in the house. His father happened to be a major shareholder in the firm and hence their worth. My husband's behaviour towards me changed drastically. He leaves the house and comes back at the time he wished. Hardly does he eat my food. His mother told him that my family curse was the root cause of my supposed infertility. His love for me began to melt down like an iceberg in water. My mother was also disturbed. She always do remember me in her prayers. Wonders they say shall never end. All this while I never knew my womb was removed spiritually by Mr Mensah. The day he left the engagement in shame, he went straight to his shrine to remove my womb in spirit. I will tell you how I got to know about that but prior to that revelation, my husband's building firm had some contract at Kumasi which was to take two years to complete which will also mean that, he was going to be away for that long. He left and people thought he had also left me just as my father left my mother. After two months into he leaving, he called me on phone and said he was missing me so wanted me to come and spend some weeks at where he was. He spoke in a manner that made me feel he was indeed missing me. Sometimes, change of environment could also help solve some minute but important problems in our lives. I agreed to his request and left that town to Kumasi leaving my blind mother behind. The good thing was that my mother could help herself with the help of the stick. Just that she must always buy to eat. I left her with enough money. My husband was actually leaving in a Bungalow at Kumasi. Two families share the same compound. When I got there, my husband was happy to have received me. The arrangement was that I will stay for two weeks and then go back to Nipahiamoa. The people we shared the compound with were also good Christian who do attend the Church Of Pentecost, Kumasi district. This family just made me remember those good old days where we cared for each other. They were actually friendly so they do keep me company whenever my husband was not around. One evening they invited me to attend their evening service which was on a Thursday. I informed my husband and went for the service. I really enjoyed the service especially their specialized dancing . Before they closed that evening, it was announced that the following evening would be an all-night service so we should come with all our problems and present them to God(my time has come, I said to myself). I was also welcomed since that was my first day at their church. Mama Grace who invited me to the church happend to be the women's fellowship leader. Mama Grace was actually a nice person and also beautiful. So after the church, we walked together to the house. On our way, she asked me to also invite my husband to the all-night service the following evening besides he won't go to work on Saturday so that wouldn't be a problem. At dawn, I woke my husband up and informed him about the program. Because he didn't believe in church, he gave excuses that he can't make it. I used my communication skills as a woman to make him agree. I told him what the announcement was about. Dawn is always the best time where husbands and wives can easily come to consensus on an issue. Because at that time, all tempers would be calm and besides a nice time for gaming(for married couples only). You can try it and see if it wouldn't work. When you have a special request for your husband, just wait till dawn. In the morning, Mama Grace also invited him personally. My husband return from site early that day so we got ourselves ready for the church. That happens to be my husband's second time of going to church after the engagement. About 30mins to our departure time, he said he doesn't feel like going again. When I asked why? He said he heard a voice telling him not to go if not something would happen to him. I went to report that to Mama Grace and she advised that, that voice was the voice of the devil so he shouldn't listen to it. The devil is always smart. So eventually, we went to the church. In the course of delivering the sermon, the head pastor said we should put all our trust in God and put all our worries before Him but with faith for with faith, mountains can be moved! He concluded that, nothing is impossible for God to do. He assured us that, if we put our trust in God He will never put us to shame. I was actually touched by the sermon. Prayer session began somewhere around 11:15pm that Friday. Various prayer topics were raised as we prayed. It got to a point where the pastor said all those looking for children should come forward. I stood up with faith and also went. As the prayer was ongoing, the pastor asked the congregation to keep mute for he could hear some baby crying but couldn't tell the angle the sound was coming from. So as we were quiet, the pastor moved down the stage and was walking amongst those standing in front. As soon as he got to where I was standing, he stopped. He said, he has found the place the baby was crying from but it was not going to be easy saving that baby. According to him, the cry was the cry of my baby but the baby has been locked in a cage somewhere. He continued and revealed almost everything about my life. He also asked me some questions which I did answer but I was in tears. He asked me if I believe I could get my baby back. I shouted YES!! All the pastor said was that my faith will deliver me and my baby. The prayer started with all seriousness. All the elders of the church were made to gather around me to pray for me. My husband was very anxious to see what was about to happen. So instead of him to pray, he was only observing(hmmm, this man). After almost an hour of intense prayer , the pastor revealed that my mother has been made blind by the same person who has removed my womb and locked my baby. He also revealed that that same person has made my father to forget about our family. He added that, my mother can gain back her sight only through prayer. But he said he doesn't know the name of the person behind the scene but in due time, I would know. They continued to pray for me and after some time, the pastor said, I should be expecting a miracle in some few weeks. Everybody was expecting some miracle over there but nothing happened. He asked if my husband was around and I said yes. He called him to come forward. We actually have a God who can changes destinies if only we trust in him. My husband was also prayed for and was made to accept Christ as his Lord and Saviour. My husband received instant
healing the night. It
was after that church service that the real battle began. Unless you have the eyes to see what is happening in the spiritual realms, you would never and ever stop praying.
What happened after the church that day, words can't explain. Follow me to the next episode and see what God can do.

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Life Is How You Make It episode 4

Life Is How You Make It. 👆🏽

Episode 4

The drug got finished from his system. I asked " Mawutor my husband, what is it ?" He said was not feeling well. I became angry because why should he start my engine and leave it on like that? I decided to tell him what I saw. I said "Mawutor, are you impotent or what? " He nearly slapped me for asking such a question. I was disappointed. Yes I was highly disappointed because why should he react to my question like that. He raised his hands to slap me but I guess his consciousness was restored so the hand remained up and never landed. I looked at him with surprise. I asked him," What were you about to do? " he remained silent. I told him what I saw in the washroom. He said he was sorry for raising his hands at me. He added that it was the work of the devil(always the devil is at fault). He then admitted that he took the drug so that he could satisfy me. He explained that he was suffering premature ejaculation and due to that, all three ladies he dated before left him. He added that, he was not ready to let
me go that was why he never touch me when were dating.
My husband was
actually in tears when he was talking. I wished those words never came out of his mouth. "But how could you? " I asked him." But you were the same person who said you wanted five children, you should have treated yourself first before we finally got married. Now what do you expect me to tell my mother? To tell her that my husband is not a "man" or what? I asked him all sort of questions that morning. He said he was sorry but with the help of that drug we could still enjoy sex. I raised my head and said God, I put my trust in you. Let my husband regain his pride and never let my enemies laugh at me. I prayed. I hugged him with my eyes filled with tears. I told him I will always stand by him in all difficulties for I knew it will be OK someday. I asked him to join me have faith in God. He said he was very happy to have me as his wife and because of the kind of love I had for him, he will build a two bedroom house for me and my mother. This is what marriage must be about. Understanding each other and ready to stand by each other in times of difficulties. When the two agree to become husband and wife, automatically, their hearts becomes one hence the feeling for each other. Men should also learn to have patience with their wives whenever they are putting a concern before them. There are no two ways that you are the head of the house. A good leader is that who listens before acting. So my husband assured me and I also gave him my trust. He said we should keep his problem as a secret as we find ways of curing it. He called his mother that morning and informed her that he was happy to inform them that I was a virgin and he was the man to break it. As usual, they were also happy to hear that. They came to reward me later in the day. My mother was also happy for me. That also meant that she was a good mother. After two weeks into our marriage, because I was not ready for my husband to use drugs on me, all we did was the foreplay and that "under one minute " thing. I advised my husband to go see the doctor at the hospital my mother was taken when she had the problem. He took my advice and in the third week, he called me one morning and said we should both go to the hospital so that we all get first hand information as to how to manage the problem. We went together. After the doctor took the past history and current complaints of my husband, he finally diagnosed and confirmed that my husband was suffering from premature ejaculation. According to the doctor, premature ejaculation can be caused by several factors ranging from inheritance to acquired. With the acquired, he said it could be due to excessive masturbation, excessive use Of aphrodisiac, excessive use of psychotic drugs, working in excessive heat, stress, and intake of spicy foods. My husband explained to the doctor that he was a fan of masturbation and the use of aphrodisiac when He was young and also mentioned 'viagra' as one drug that he used to take most frequently. This was when the doctor educated us on the use of those drugs. But according to him, viagra is made to rather treat impotence and premature ejaculation. But when not taken with advice from your doctor, will lead to serious problems. He said some people do take overdose because they wanted to go extra miles. The doctor explained a lot to us indicating that my husband's problem is one of the problems affecting most men of late and leading to breakups. He added that the problem can be cured but because most men find it difficult saying their problem to experts to help them, they rather depend on those drugs which cause them further problems. The doctor promised to help my husband come out of the problem. He prescribed this same drug with others but with instructions on how to take them. He also gave some behaviour therapy to him and asked me to help him.He later referred us to a counsellor. The good news he said was that, premature ejaculation was not the same as low sperm count so I could become pregnant. That gave me some hope of bearing children. A whole year passed with no sign of pregnancy. But the problem was becoming better for my husband. My mother was disturbed I was not getting pregnant. This was a great joy for Mr mensah. Personally I almost lost hope. What could the problem be? I asked myself. My mother in-law was also not happy about my inability to become pregnant. I was always praying to God to never let my enemies use me as a laughing stock. Two years had gone and still no sign of pregnancy despite my husband's problem fixed. We roamed from hospital this to hospital that and all they always say was that my system was OK and my husband despite the fact that his sperms were not that strong, that shouldn't prevent pregnancy. My mother in-law started given me pressure. She calls me all sort of names anytime she visits. On one of her visits, she threatened of getting another woman for my husband. She gave me a three months grace period. Wonders they say shall never end. I never knew my womb was removed in spirit by Mr mensah.
The wicked one will never stop lurking in wait for you. Follow me to the next episode. Wonders shall never end. God indeed knows his own!

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Life Is How You Make It episode 3

Life Is How You Make It 👆🏽

Episode 3

Mr Mensah was actually wicked. He planned destroying my engagement. Because his son Datsomor also refused listening to him, he became more furious than ever. As smart as he is, he asked his son the venue for the program which his son ignorantly told him. The wicked one is always smart that is why it's said that "when a bird learns to fly without perching, the hunter also learns to shoot without missing". But because we serve a living God, we shall surely overcome. What Mr Mensah did was that he also decided to attend the engagement. He prepared his African gun powder (Tukpe). Tukpe is an African traditional medicine which is made purposely to kill. It is spiritual so can't see it but can only feel it. He prepared this charm and came with it to my engagement. His son never knew he will follow him after he had left. I became very surprised seeing him. "Who invited this man? " I asked my yet to-be husband. He said maybe he came with his son. My uncle who nearly raped me was the one I made to receive the bride price on behalf of my father. He was also a medicine man. Actually most of my father's family members were into African traditional religion. My mother was also present but could not see what was going on. She could only hear us speak. Our pastor was also around. But because it was a traditional engagement, he didn't appear much on the program lineup. It got to the point were my husband was to put the engagement ring on my fingers. As soon as I stood up, I felt a very sharp pain around my waist. I fell to the ground immediately because my waist got locked. My face began to swollen up. Eeei! What is the problem? Everybody started asking. Quickly I was carried into the room. My uncle came to perform his usual incantations and said someone has shot me (Tukpe) the gun powder. Then he said he needed to go to his shrine to consult his gods for direction for treatment. He could not help me. My pastor came in and asked all believers to come around so that they pray for me. They prayed and miraculously I regained consciousness. We serve a miracle working God. After l had gained consciousness, my uncle returned and said his gods have travelled so he can only treat me on their return(would have been dead by then, I said to myself. But he was told my pastor prayed and I'm okay. The wicked one wouldn't go unscathed. Mr Mensah was surprised and left the place as soon as he saw that I was saved. The program continued. My mother was only hearing all that was going on but couldn't see. It got to a point where I saw tears flow down her eyes. I went closer to her and when I moved, I also started shedding tears because i wish she saw my beauty that day. We did only engagement because my husband didn't believe in wedding. His defense was that it was waste of money and other economic resources. He claimed he believes in marriage and not wedding. When asked what that meant, he said marriage is when the two including their families accept to be together through the paying of the bride price which was at the engagement. He added that the money to be spent in hiring cars, buying of gown, wedding rings, providing for best men and maid of honour, feeding people and other expenses could be channelled into investing in some productive business after the marriage. Wedding will also mean signing for better for worse. I didn't force him despite the fact that I wished I was wedded. I understood his concerns and took it like that. Once the love was there I was okay. The best thing in a successful relationship is love, trust and understanding which I knew my husband had. What we did the following day after the engagement was to go to church together and asked for the blessings of God and prayer from the church and to also thank them for helping us come out of that shame which nearly mud the engagement. That was done at Musama Disco Christo Church, Nipahiamoa. The engagement was successful that day just that I wasn't very happy because mummy could not see all that which went on. I moved to my husband's house after the church which also happened to be our honeymoon. My husband agreed my for my mother to stay with us so we all moved to my husband's house after the church service. She was allocated her personal room. My husband had his own three bedroom apartment which was in the same village but a bit far from where my father's house was. As usual the church and the entire community was expecting the news about my virginity the following day after I moved to my husband's house. Hmmm the shocking news was that my husband could not perform. The Akans of Ghana will say 'odor branda " but at a minimum rate. My husband was still avoiding me on my honeymoon night. I was eagerly ready to break my virginity that night and to also taste the "fruit of the holy spirit" . When everything started, he was very good at the foreplay. He actually massaged my body to the extent that I got to the peak of my marginal utility curve. It was a blast 💥. I became ready for the seed of life to be planted in me. He eventually planted it in and seriously I got shocked as if it was an electric shock(ekiki me). I felt a sharp pain in my abdomen. To be honest it was just too BIG. But unfortunately, my husband became very weak within one and a half minutes and was breathing profusely like someone who had just crossed the finishing line of a Marathon race. He said he wanted to use the washroom. I asked him if all was well. He said he will be fine. I was disturbed but realized there was some blood on the white bedsheet(ade3 no ate). That was very much an evidence to tell people that I was a virgin. Not knowing he went to the washroom to take an aphrodisiac(men of today.....smh). I guess it was viagra. He return and said he went to urinate. I told him how high I was when he left. The foreplay started again and this time around he actually striked the hell out of me. For almost an hour he never "came ". I became tired and bled too. That was my first time and imagine the pains that came with it. I became scared. I asked myself if that was what ladies lineup in traffic at night waiting for. I pushed him to stand up because I was tired. My marginal utility curve was in the negatives. He was happy he broke my virginity. I changed the bedsheet and he slept back. I realized he slept off so I went to take my bath that night. Before the bath, I decided to also use the wc. Lo and behold, he tried flashing the aphrodisiac peal but it didn't go. I think he didn't wait to see it go before leaving. I used the brush to pick it up and I realized my husband used medicine on me. "Ah! what is the meaning of this? " I asked myself. I opened the dustbin to put it into it and I saw the box in which it was taken from. I became very angry but pretended I didn't see anything. I just didn't want to believe my husband can perform. He was still asleep when I
returned.
I came to lie down and began to think. At dawn he tried touching me again. Something was pushing me to ask him but I didn't know how to start because I knew it would bring problems and besides, I don't want to break that joy of me being a virgin. After all he used it on me and not on another person.
I said to myself to keep me calm. He started kissing me and I also gave in. I always liked his foreplay(on point). The fact was that the drug was no more active in his body so when he entered into the holy of holiest, less than one minute he was struggling for breathe. Now the drug he used to take got finished. "Mawutor my husband what is it? " I asked. He said he was not feeling well. I became angry because why should he start my engine and leave it just like that? You've got to move the car!x I then decided to tell him what I saw. I said Mawutor "are you impotent or what? " He nearly slapped me for asking that question.I was disappointed!
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Life Is How You Make It episode 2

Life Is How You Make It 👆🏽

Episode 2

I said Mr mensah was behind these problems because the charm he buried at the back of our house was intended to wipe away the entire family. Upon that he had cursed my mother that she would suffer in life which my mother believed and the community was aware of that curse so due to that, only few people came around to help bury my later sister. Majority of the people we expected didn't turn up. They claimed our family was cursed and maybe they might be affected with our misfortunes. I wonder if curse was contagious(you may wonder too,huh?). Their absence didn't discourage us in anyway but rather gave us the opportunity to put our trust in God. Our believe was that God did not give us rock when we ask for bread neither will he give us snake when we ask for meat. Life continued after the burial. As I said I dropped out of school in order to help my mother at home. We worked on my father's farm to get some food for the house. That year by the grace of God we had a bumper harvest which also happened to be our very first harvest after my father left. We had almost six bags of maize. Mr Mensah noticed that his cruel plans had almost failed. This was partly because he never expected any good thing for us and partly too because it seems the charm he buried at the back of our house was no longer working. His self concept was actually challenged because we were seriously making it. Thought that wasn't enough. He became jealous of our success and this time around he went to bury a different charm in our farm just to deepenn our woes. One thing about the wicked one is that they would never give up on you unless they get what they wanted so you must also be prayerful always. Due to my beauty and hardwork, I was bombarded with proposals from men from all walks of life. I was no more a school girl so that also gave them the courage to try me the more. A day wouldn't pass without at least two proposals(Princess Fiona ). I ignored them all because I knew the situation in which we were. But finally I realized I needed to get someone who could accept my situation and care for me. I gave the opportunity to Mawutor. I accepted him because I felt he was God fearing, hardworking and handsome. Ah well, only God knows the heart of man. Our names also rhymed. Mawufemor and Mawutor😀. He had actually demonstrated what I needed from a guy. He showed me love and care. He wouldn't act before listening. He had time for me and that was exactly what I was expecting. One interesting thing too was that he never requested for sex from me despite the fact that we do hangout together. He does come to our house to help me fetch water and do other things. He was actually a darling. What we did with respect to our farm was mixed cropping, so after harvesting the maize, we still had hot pepper and cassava to take care of on the farm. My mother used to send some of the produce to the market to sell on market days. Life I would say almost revived a year after my sister's death until that day! A day I termed as Black Wednesday..... my mother had gone to the farm to harvest some pepper. She unfortunately walked on the charm Mr Mensah had buried in the the farm. Mawutor was with me when mummy said goodbye to leave for the farm. We waited for quite some time but there were no signs of her return so we decided to follow up. You may be surprised, my Id was in full swing which made me to seduce Mawutor in the house that day but he was able to withstand it all . As a tradition in the community, a lady who got her virginity broken by her legal husband would be rewarded by the man's family which would intend bring some sort of fame to the man as well. So Mawutor said he wanted me to receive that reward so he was not ready to touch me until we were legally married. In view of that I kept myself pure. We followed up on my mother only to see her lying in cold blood by the side of the road leading to the farm. My heart almost ceased working when I saw her. Thankfully, she was alive. But had blood coming out of her nose. She could not see anything. She said in a very faint voice that her eyes were paining her. Mawutor helped in carrying her to the house where I managed to clean the blood and changed her clothes and then we rushed her to the hospital. The doctor ran all the necessary tests on her but said he couldn't find the actual cause of her problem. He managed to prevent the blood but said my mother has lost her sight. "How doctor? " I asked in tears. He and Mawutor tried consoling me but I couldn't hold back my tears. I felt my world has come to an end. Because, how could I as a young lady take care of a blind mother?hmmm, My father too was no where to be found. My mother had to spend a week at the hospital but the fact remained clear that she was blind. What a wicked world! I never thought that it was Mr Mensah who was behind this one. Because he doesn't share farm boundary with us so how could he go there in the first place. No family member to support us. Why is this world full of sociopaths and wicked people? I asked God in my prayer. My mother was in total blackout with refractive error. How come? I pondered over this for some time. My boyfriend was also always around me to give me comfort. Two years passed and mummy remained blind. She learned how to use the stick to find her way. She do spend almost all her days in the chapel praying for God to come to her aid. We were made not to go to that farm again by the Chief of our community. Finally Mawutor proposed marriage to me(much awaited). Without wasting time I accepted and I informed my mother about it. Preparations began. I went to one of my uncle's who lived in the next town to take the family marriage list. To my surprise, this man wanted to rape me that day. Thanks to God that her wife came in early. He shamefully gave me a list which was just illogical and irrational. How on earth could Mawutor get all those things? Off course they were rich but it was just too much. I asked him and pleaded with him to help reduce it. He said he would only do that if I should give him the opportunity to touch me. I again threatened to report him to his wife if he tries that on me. Eventually he gave me the standard list. My mother was happy I was getting married but on the other side was worried that I would be leaving her. I promised her that I would take her along with me to wherever I would go. Mawutor and his family got ready for the engagement. We did only engagement because my husband said he believed in marriage and not wedding. How I wish most of our ladies would learn to accept the fact that marriage is just not about wedding. Prior to the engagement, we sent invitations to almost everybody but not to Mr Mensah. The mistake my husband made was that he invited Datsomor(Mr Mensah's son) who happened to be his friend. Datsomor also informed his father that he would be attending my engagement. His father persuaded him not to attend but he never gave audience to his father. Mr Mensah again became jealous that I was getting married. His concern was that why should I get married to someone that was from a rich family. That to him would mean that I would
become rich and take
good care of my mother who to him deserved to die a shameful death. I became his next target. My friend I want to assure you that with Christ in you, there would always be greater hope of glory. Mr Mensah was actually wicked. He planed of destroying the engagement.
What did this man do to my engagement? Was the engagement successful? Get your answers from the next episode.

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Life is How You Make It episode 1

Jones Kwesi Tagbor
The writer of
Life on campus 🏤
My first day @school
And
My mysterious journey through life 🙇🏽🙇🏽
🙇🏽 is here again with

Life is How You Make It 👆🏽

Episode 1

I can still remember those good old days. That togetherness, the mutual respect, that impersonal community life, not to even talk of that common goal we all seek to accomplish in those days. What do we see now? Everybody for him/herself and God for us all. Tonnies expressed concern and dissatisfaction with changes in these social structures. He said the sense of community in the villages and towns was being superseded by the impersonal city activities. That supportive interdependence and mutual responsibility of village and town life were lost to the highly differentiated and individualistic nature of large scaled structures of city life. You may be wondering why am saying all these,huh? I wished time never changed and we should still remain in those days. My parents gave birth to just the two of us. I happened to be the first of all females. But unfortunately I lost my junior sister due to sickness. My sister shouldn't have died before but because there was no one to take the responsibility of paying for her hospital bills, she has to die at a tender age of ten. My father also left my mother in the exact peak of the hardship. According to my daddy, he could no longer take care of us because he lost his job due to a theft case which later became so clear that he had no hand in it, but being the chief security by then, he had to sacrifice his job(our only source of income). Actually my sister died two years after he left us. He woke up one morning and said he was going to visit a "God knows friend at a God knows place". We expected him to return after some days, but days turned to weeks, weeks to months, and months to years. The next thing we heard was that he's found a new woman and have settled down with her. Anyway as I always do say, God knows best. My name is Mawufemor meaning 'Godsway'. Many call me 'Caput ' due to my height. Despite the fact I wasn't that tall, I was the target of most young men in our community. To say I wasn't BEAUTIFUL will be the greatest understatements someone would have ever made in centuries. I'm just a direct replica of my mother. Black beauty, with a round body, and hugely endowed both front and back. Salt does not praise itself so let me leave the rest for you to do. After all beauty they say lies in the eyes of the beholder. Life was very interesting at the time my family was intact. My daddy would carry me at the bark of his bicycle to school before leaving for work and will come for me when we closed. I was 16years old and in JSS but my father still do carry me to school. I attended Nipahiamoa LA basic. On Saturdays, my father would join his friends in the community either to do a general community work or work on a group member's farm. Myself, my late sister together with my mom would tidy up in and around our compound. We lived in a small community called Nipahiamoa(Man Needs Help). This name according to history came up when the chief and elders of the community realized they could only develop as a town if only they support each other in diverse ways hence the name 'Nipahiamoa' which literally means man needs help. Mr Mensah was a family friend who used to visit us very frequently. His son Datsomor proposed to me but I didn't accept it. Not knowing Mr Mensah has been proposing love to my mother anytime my daddy was not around. This man never had any good manners to know that my mother was in her matrimonial home. I was sixteen years old by then so I began to notice his actions. One day when my father went to help his people to work on a friend's farm, Mr Mensah came around again and started harassing my mother sexually. I got upset and told him I would report him to my father when he returns from the farm. On the defense, he said it was rather my mother who had shown interest in him(projection) so out of anger, my mother threw a halfway bucket filled with hot water which she had boiled to bath on Mr. Mensah. I knew my mother did that out of annoyance. This man actually got burned in his face. I also pushed him out of the house. The whole community heard what went on. He then cursed my mother by saying she would suffer in her life before dying. My friend, never let any negative thing said about you eat you up. Rather pray to God to give you strength to do exploit to shame your enemy. Note that they don't control your life but God. The unfortunate thing was that my mother took what Mr Mensah said seriously and with immediate effect it started to manifest. Just some few months after that incident, my father lost his job as a chief security man in the organization he was working with. He also had some issue with his friends in the community so he also stopped going to do the community work. Life became somewhat miserable for us. My late sister by name Delali was seven years old by then. She became sick and no one could identify what exactly was wrong with her. All my father believed in was that there was a God but doesn't belong to any specific religion. We the children and our mother do attend Musama Disco Christo church. Besides, that was the only church in the community by then. After a year of my daddy's unemployment, our source of living was the petty trade my mother was doing in addition to the small farm my father has. The painful aspect was that my daddy went to farm one day and on his return was bitten by a rattle snake. Luckily for him, some other farmers rescued him if not the snake would have killed him. Delali was also in her sick bed. Now my mother used all she had including the capital of her business to treat both dad and Delali. After my daddy regained his strength, he woke up one day and told us he wanted to check on a friend but earlier in the previous evening he said he was not happy that it was my mother who was now the bread winner of the house. He left the house that morning and never returned. A month later a church member said he saw him working as a driver's mate at Kamasi. That brought us some sort of relief because we thougt something had happened to him. We were happy he was alive. Delali's sickness became worse two years after he left us so eventually she died. Not knowing, Mr Mensah was the chief architect behind all these. He actually came to plant something at the back of our house one night after that initial incident without our knowledge. Posterity they say would judge us all. Why should God allow all these to happen to us? I asked myself. Life was more than hell for us. My daddy was gone and now my only sister has also followed. Hmmm, it wasn't an easy journey for us at all. I had to stop schooling since there was no one to help me.
Will Mr Mensah go unscathed? Let's go to the next episode. This is just the beginning. Just relax and enjoy the rest of the story.

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I even thought the would has come an end. Quickly Esinam got closer to me and asked what the problem was. I turned deaf and dumb instantly. She became worried and asked the waiter  who caught me what the problem was. I heard the waiter asking Esinam that who i was to her. She said I was her boyfriend. "Saaa! " the waiter responded. She added "Then you must be prepared to visit your ancestors soon because I saw that guy putting something into your food and that's making everyone's attention to be shifted to him. He actually poisoned your food . " Before I could turn myself to say it was not true,  two security men at the place came to arrest me. Esinam has just lost control over herself. She could not believe what was happening. She became stiff standing at one place and could not move. She was extremely surprised at what she heard. The security men took me to the cape coast district police station for questioning. In fact I received what we actually call torture from the police. They asked me to tell them what I put into the food but I refused letting the truth out. After some more torture, I revealed that it was for abortion and not a poison. In some few minutes,  Esinam and some staff including the waiter came to the police station to write their statement.  As soon as Esinam set her eyes on me in the custody of the police full with bumps and blood all over my face,  she began to cry. She came to me and asked me what I did. I told her it was the work of the devil. "So the devil asked you to kill me right? " she asked. I told her it was not what she was thinking. I realized she was becoming angry so I told her I was not planning to kill her but the medicine was to make her abort the pregnancy but not to harm her. Before I could even finish my sentence, Esinam was now shouting on top of her  voice crying drawing the attention of the police. By then I was inside the cell as she was standing outside. I couldn't just sit down because the cell was smelling with urine and 😲. My freind I won't recommend that place for you because hmmm let me just stop there because it's an eye saw.  I was then called upon to come and write my statement. After the statement, I asked one of the female police to help call my parents for me. She called using the police office line. She made me to speak with my dad and that was where I told my dad where I was. My Dad told me he will come the next two days because he was out of town. Ei! Which would mean I must sleep in that cell for two days. Esinam was very Sorry for me. She wished she had her own way of letting the police release me but the police told her she was not the one who brought me there so they can't allow me go . Esinam said she couldn't leave me alone there but eventually she left to campus. That night I couldn't sleep. There were three other guys in the cell where I was. One of them said he was the captain and wanted to bully me. I tried stopping him but the other two guys joined him to beat me up. I needed to obey whatever they would say. i stood for the whole night because i   could not just afford sitting in that urine filled cell. Early morning the next day, they made me to take the bucket of urine out but with a police escort. Soon Esinam brought some food to   me that morning. She stayed at the police station for sometime before leaving. Some friends came to visit me too. My head of department also came. I told him I didn't do what I was accused of. That night, because I could not stand again, I sat on the floor till morning. In the afternoon of that day my dad came around with my HOD to grant me bail. My dad was made to pay Ghc5,000.00 or they will process me for court. My dad payed and I was made to go but a strong warning was given to me. After we left the station,my Dad asked me about what happened and there I  told him the whole truth. She became angry with me and said I should try my best to take care of the pregnant lady and the possible baby. He apologized to Esinam and told her that they will take Care of the child. Before my dad left. He gave Esinam Ghc 50.00 without giving me anything . After my Dad left, I knelt down before Esinam and pleaded her to  forgive me. It was a hard thing for her to do but as I said ladies would continue to be ladies with that soft heart . She called for a warm hug which led to a holy kiss. She let go the pain in her heart.  Fred never visited me when I was in  the cell. He actually left the campus the next moment after the incident.  Esinam said she informed her parents too about it and her mother promised coming to the campus the following day. Now it became clear that I must plan of how I will become a father. Her mother came and I met her. She said I must follow her to their house on her return. I went and introduced myself to the family. Esinam also went with us. Esinam gave birth to a baby boy during our level 200. She needed to deferred that semester in other to see to the development of the  baby. I must say our parents helped in providing some support to us. We named the baby Quist. He is now in pre-school doing very well. I thanked God I didn't kill him. Quiet is actually a blessing to us. I graduated with lower two years ago but Esinam because she deferred, graduated with an upper last year. We are planning of marriage after her national service. I must admit that we still love each other. I am now teaching at some private secondary school in the eastern region. Krobo girls. This students are just giving me pressure. I don't know how to close close my zip.  I pray I don't clear any of the students.

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Life on Campus episode 9

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I left her place so disturbed and confused. I couldn't attend  lectures that whole week.  On the Friday of that week, Fred, a program mate Visited me in the morning at my hall VALCO  to  check on me  since I was not able to go for lectures. In the course of our conversation, I asked for his view about   what I could do to prevent the shame. Fred only laughed and asked me whether I considered his  view before  driving in that holy  wonderland. But that was on a lighter note. He said I was behaving  like  a kid so I should look sharp. I didn't understand what he meant , so I asked for more elucidation. He said the solution to my problem was as simple as everything.       He then gave me some deadly ideas but I rejected them all because I  still loved Esinam and won't let anything happen to her. Fred came up with different  idea. This time around, I saw some sense in what he suggested. He showed me some antibiotics to buy which I must put either in  her drink or food. According to Fred, within about 30 minutes ,she would feel like using the rest room where the fetus would come out upon pressure. I asked him if it won't damage the womb of Esinam because I intended marrying her in future. Fred succeeded in convincing me. He said, that was a  common method ladies use to safely end their unwanted pregnancies. He promised of getting me the tablet the next day. So after he left that morning, I phoned Esinam to book some time with her the following day. So when I called, I made her feel that I was in support of her decision. I told her that I loved her and won't let anything bad happen to her. I promised taking full responsibility of the pregnancy. I also deceived her that I informed my parents about it and they were ready to accept her. Esinam fell for my sugarcoated words and became happy within herself. I then proceeded to arrange an outing for the next days evening. After the call, I went to her hall later in the evening to take our                 usual super. It will surprise you that both my parents and her parents were still not aware of  the pregnancy. In the morning of the next day, Fred came with the tablet. There was no inscription on the sachet. But its colour was yellow. I thought is was diazepam because it looked like it. He asked me to grind five to seven tablets which was 100mg each and add h it to Esinams food or drink. Even though I got scared, i gathered courage and  agree to the plan. We also arranged  that he would come to where we would be taking the food so that he could engage Esinam in a private chat outside so that I could add the drug to her food.  Before he left, I gave him 10gh to use to support his day. The time came for our outing and Esinam dressed up in one of her best clothes. In fact she looked more s**y in that dress. I wished I could go on another round of 16 before the game sets in. We went to a popular beach resort around campus called "Enkonso" beach. We first had some fun at the beach before coming for the food which was my main reason for that day. I ordered for fufu with groundnut soup and she also did same. I don't normally take alcohol so we all ordered for soft drinks. In about five minutes into our eating, Fred came around. By seeing him, I felt like crying because I knew this lady would go through pains in the next moment. Esinam noticed my reactions and asked what was wrong with me. Before I could say anything, Fred approached us. He asked whether we would care for kibbabs. Esinam said Yes. So he asked her to follow him so that she take the one she wanted. As they were going, Fred came back and told me to look sharp. Quickly, I took the drug out of my boxer pant. In the process of mixing Esinam's food with the saturated drug, one of the waiters saw me and shouted 'Jesus'!. Looking directly into my face and  making the other people around to also look at me. Esinam thought something happened to me so she ran to my place because almost everyone's attention was now on me. In a distance, I saw Fred running away. Oh my God am doomed. I said to myself.

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It was one early morning around 5am that Esinam sent me a text message which reads  that she was expecting her menses that week but it didn't come. 😳 I thought my eyes were deceiving me so I opened it more wider to read the message again. "How?, and what does that mean? " I asked myself. " Could it be that Esinam is pregnant or what? " I then rationalized and said to myself that Maybe it was due to the more intake of those contraceptives that led that. Yah it happens at times. More intake of these oral contraceptives can lead to a change in a ladies menstrual periods. It either makes the menses  comes earlier or later than than the usual cycle which can also lead to unexpected pregnancy because you may miscalculate your free period and if  you  should  commit yourself, pregnancy won't be far from you. So this thought came into my mind so I quickly called Esinam around 6:30 that morning and told her not to be afraid of anything because it does happen. She accepted what I said by faith and became quite calm. In fact I was just praying that the following week should come quick with a good news of menstruation. Two days later, I went to town and on my return I bought her some pads in anticipation of her menses . I think it was "Always" I bought because she once told me that, that  is what she uses. The following week came and almost two days past and no sign of blood. Ei!!  We were both seated on a time bomb which was about to explode. Friday of that week came and nothing. In the third week, I realized that Esinam was not herself. She always feels very tired after doing something small. I asked her what was the problem and she told me that she thinks she was  pregnant. I asked her whether  has she been experiencing that early morning fever but she said no. Her front defenses were also gathering more momentum and her complexion too was somewhat changing. She doesn't feel for food too.  I then recommended that she go see the doctor at the university hospital for further assessment. Hold and behold, the report revealed that Esinam was a month old  pregnant. I wish I had that spirit where one could vanish and never appear again after she showed the report to me at her hall. We were both muted for almost 30 minutes, then I asked her that what were we going to do about it. She quickly raised up her head and asked me to repeat myself. "I am not going to anything to myself or the pregnancy so don't even think of anything or plan anything. Maybe start planning of how to become a father " Esinam reported. I just sensed it that the rapture the Bible promised was about to happen. " what am I going to do? How do I tell my parents? How do I take care of a pregnant lady in my first year? " those were some rhetorical questions flashing through my mind. I boldly told her that she can't keep that pregnancy but must abort it. I said that with some courage. She said I was joking and no one not even  her parents would ask her to abort the pregnancy  and she would listen. so I should forget it . She also said she was of age and can take care of herself so that  won't be a problem. In fact I planned to secretly terminate the pregnancy in my own way. I then designed some plans to execute my plans.

Will I be successful? What would be the consequences of my plans? Get answers to these questions in the next Episode.

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In about three hours after I sent the text message, I saw her call coming in. I wished you saw how my heart quickly ran to its normal position. I was so happy just to see her call coming in. I decided to call her back so I  cut the call and returned it. As soon as she answered the call, I addressed her as my queen. She quickly shut me down with a very hash voice. She said " don't even start it. Who is your queen? That is your very last time of hearing my voice. Go and be with that your so-called friend and insult anyone the way you like " the most hurting part of her comments was that I shouldn't even try calling her again and I should also pretend not knowing her from anywhere. As a matter of fact, my mouth was locked up. Because I lost all my words instantly. Have you heard of Tabula rasa before? That was what happened to me.  After bombarding me with those battalions of words, I remained silent for almost five minutes. Then I came in as the most innocent person on earth. I responded to her in a very cool and caring voice.  " Esinan, I won't straggle  with you but I know within me that  what am telling you is the truth and nothing but the truth. My heart is pure about what am telling you but you seem not to believe me. But I want you to understand that I love you and will still remain faithful within my heart until you finally get married to whoever will marry you " after telling her these things, I realized she was crying over the phone. There I said in my mind that I got her. I told you ladies will always be ladies. God has given them a very soft heart. If they should get on fire like what, All that you need to do is to talk to them with a very cool and innocent voice. Esinam became convinced and told me that she also loved me. She then asked me to promise her that nothing would come in-between us because she loved me so much that  she became shocked when   she saw that message. I thanked her for understanding me. One important thing about relationship is understanding each other. Now my relationship with Mercy came to a halt because since that day, she never steped her foot in  my place. The days passed by till the vacation came to an end and we returned to campus. We both planned reporting early so that we could  have some quality time together before academic work starts. We actually enjoyed ourselves. We went on a tour to Kakum national park and Elimina castle. Some of our games were without protection.  After the second month of the semester, Esinam sent me a text message that her menstruation did not come as expected. I quickly  remembered that day when  the balloon got bust in the middle of Moses' red sea. "how can that happen and what does that mean?" I asked myself

Is Esinam pregnant? And what happened to me?  Follow me to the next Episode.

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I regretted  leaving the room that day. Before I returned to the room, Mercy left the room without even locking the door. I went straight to my Facebook page to check what went on. "Oh! My o my, come and see trouble give me. Mercy impersonated me and wrote to Esinam that I was  with my lady so she should Stop disturbing my relationship and also she should cut her coat to her size. She added that I don't love her and all I needed was to take advantage of her which I succeed doing.  I realized Esinam didn't reply the message but went offline in the next two minutes after she read that message. "Oh my God  what has this lady done to me?" I said to myself. In fact I wished I could in the next second of seeing that mess  get to wherever  Esinam was  just to make her understand that those words were not mine. If Mercy were to be anywhere near me, I didn't know what would have happened. It's either I would have been in police custody or something else. I was more than a schizophrenic who seems to be in a different world. I called Esinam for about five times but no response. I called Mercy to release my anger on her but her phone was off. I logged back to the Facebook page but she was still offline.  Now my problem too was that I didn't know how to confront Mercy for her malicious behavior. I was actually disturbed more than being in the State of cacophony. I then decided to send Esinam a text message  instead, because I couldn't  just afford to end that relationship like that. I then sent her this message. " Hello my queen, I know you won't find any meaning in these words but they are the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I was not the one who sent you those insulting words. It was a friend who came to my room at the time I went to take my bath. She is not my girlfriend and she was not in Anyway my girlfriend. She impersonated me and sent that message to you . She actually wanted my attention which I denied her and out of jealousy, she interrupted with my chat. So my plea to you is that you should not act based on that message. Just disregard it. I love you and I won't make anything to hurt you. Please disregard that message and respond to my call. I love you. " that was the message I sent to her. In about three hours later she called. Hmmm she actually gave me the greatest shock of my life. 

I never thought I could be among the living as at today after that shocking call. But the fact remains that ladies will continue to be ladies. See what happened in the next Episode.

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Mercy started behaving in some unusual  way towards me. She does not visit me as usual, and respond to my questions sharply. One day, I arranged for a meeting between us because I also do not want to  let go the  relationship like  that. If anything kraa,  she should leave the relationship but not me. We met at some chop bar in a town next to ours. I asked her why the sudden change in behavior. Surprisingly, she asked me why I couldn't make time for her at the time she came to the campus. I told her I don't understand what she was insinuating. She said I have changed since I went to school because I no more have time for her. We hardly chat on phone for long again and anytime she would call, I will tell her I was busy. These were some of the allegations she raised against me. I smiled at her and told her that nothing was  happening at her back. I made her to understand that I still loved her and nothing would separate us. She became convinced with my magic words and smiled back at me. We took fufu with fresh palm wine at the chop bar. When we return to my house, we entertained ourselves very well. One day, in something she called a  surprise visit, I was chatting on Facebook with Esinam In my room using my laptop. I least expected her that early morning so when I heard the knock on my door I thought It was one of my siblings. I opened the door leaving the laptop on the bed. As soon as I opened the door, she opened requested for a hug. I had no other option than give inn and also kissed her. Anyway, " greet your neighbor with a Holly kiss ". I tried preventing her from seeing the laptop screen because I was just telling Esinam how loving she was and also  how gregarious she was when at work in my under factory. Unfortunately for me, Mercy came with some  kumawood movie CD titled "Odor Carpenter party 1&2" and besides it was my laptop we do use in watching movies anytime she was with me. So what I did Was to quickly minimize the Facebook page but she saw me doing that. She then asked if I have finished chatting so that we could watch the movie. I said Yes. Then she took the laptop and insected the disc. I didn't want her to feel anything fishy so I never mind. Unfortunately, she connected the laptop to the big speaker in the room. As the movie was playing, Esinam was sending messages so the notification sound was interruption the movie. Because she was controlling the laptop, she paused the movie and maximized the Facebook page." Oh my God what was  this lady upto?" I said to myself. Esinam was referring to me as "honey" in her message. As soon as she saw that, she asked, " who was that " I told her just a friend back at SHS. Mercy at the time was in a vocational school reading food and nutrition. She then scrolled up to see our previous chats. I was actually seated on a time bomb at the  time. I quickly excused her to go take my bath. She never spoke a word. I went out of the room because I knew what she was capable of doing. I guess that was a wrong move I took because she replied Esinam back in my absence. I was actually mad at myself.

Read what she sent to Esinam in my absence and how I maneged the situation in the next Episode.

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Yah what went on  that evening was just a blast💥  mouth cannot explain all. The akans would tell you "es3 woeni na 3ns3 Wukatsr3". After the food Esinam said she wanted to take her bath so that we could go out because we planned going out that evening.  Now the issue too was that it was a single and a  small room which contains two people with their belongings so you could imagine  how small the room space would be. I told Esinam that I wanted to go out so that she could undress herself and change so that she could go take her  bath. She said there was no need for me going out. And besides i will one day see whatever she would be hiding that day and besides that too she would use her cloth to cover herself. I agreed in silence  and sat on her bed. In the process of undressing herself with the help of her cloth, her phone rang. The phone was besides me on the bed. So with her body halfway covered with the cloth she came closer to pick her call. I couldn't just withstand looking at her in the cloth. I never thought of that but at that time hmmm I guess you would also feel the same way.  Esinam was a fair and hairy lady with a round body. She is not too short but not tall too. As she turn towards me to pick the phone I could just read every manuscript and geographical drawing under the cloth. The front defense mechanical agents were just a wao.  My key of being a man could not sit quietly without nodding its head and enlongating its necks to appreciate the good workes of the lord . Esinam noticed the storm and tsunami going on inside me. I guess she should be an experienced lady. Because I t tried hiding my feelings but she could detect it.  She stood right in front of me turning herself as she was  receiving the call. After the call which was from her mother, she sat down besides me and asked  what was wrong with me because she could realize I was not comfortable within myself. I told her I was ok. Then she placed her hands on my head and moving it all over my head making it possible for me to clearly read what was about happening. I asked her to go and lock the door which she did. When she came back she moved to pick her handbag and took some pill. I guess it was a contraceptive. She then dropped the cloth to the ground. Oooooh my gooodness!! All my imaginations were right. All in all it happened. We went on a three round boxing game. That day hmm I can't forget it. She then went to take her bath and return. I was there when she did all her face painting and dressed up. I helped her close the zip at the back of her top dress. She gave me her expensive perfume to use on my body. After we went out to Goil where we enjoyed some live band music and took some soft drinks. At Goil, I switched off my phone because I knew Mercy would call to disturb my day. We return to campus around 11pm that night. I sent her to her hall and return to mine. We went back to Facebook to continue our chat. She thanked me for the good work I helped her do and I also thanked her for the opportunity. We lived happily for the rest of that semester. On vacation, we continued with our chat both voice calls and Facebook. Mercy was now suspecting some secret game going on around her so she designed some ways to get me. Eii ladies of these days. They are capable of doing anything to get what they want.

The next Episode would tell some of the plans Mercy planned against me. Don't forget to leave your comments.

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I called Mercy back and told her that Thursday  would be one of my busy days so I may not be able to make it. She agreed to what I said but said she would passby to see where I was  and then would continue to the castle. Because I had no other excuse I agreed to that. The next day which happened to be a Wednesday, I informed Esinam that that my kid sister would be visiting me the next day. I told her that my parents sent her to bring me some food stuffs. Esinam said she wanted to see my sister when she comes. I said in my head," ah! wenney wahala be this one too " I simply responded ok. We had a busy day attending one lecture to the other. I always eat at her place every evening. So same thing went on that day. Thursday came and I was thinking of how to manage the situation. At the time I was still thinking, Esinam called to check on me and then also reminded me of the African studies lecture that would come off in the evening. We both planned the day together. About two hours to the time for my African studies, Mercy called and said she was around Saltpond coming. Which would mean that she would get to campus in almost an hour time. I dressed up waiting for her. Esinam also called and said she was coming so that we move to the lecture together. "Trouble don come finish " I said to myself. Quickly I called her back and told her that my sister was in town so I was going to meet her and pick the items and return quickly. She asked why I wanted to meet her in town and I told her she was finding it difficult getting car to campus. Ok. She replied but added that I should bring her to campus just for her to see her face and I agreed. I did all these so that Esinam would not think of coming to my place. Thankfully it worked. Mercy came and I met her at the main gate. I walked with her to my hall and showed her where I was. I then told her that I had a class in the next ten minutes so she should start going so that I could go for the class. She said   was that class more important than her presence? I turned a deaf ear to that and insisted she leaves. She had no other option than to go. When I was about sending her to get a car to the castle, Esinam called. I only put the phone on silence and pretend to be receiving the call. Unfortunately for me She called again and the phone rang even as I was pretending to be receiving the call. But Mercy could not detect that. She got a car and off she left. Awww as if a heavy load had been taken off  my head. I called Esinam and told her I left my phone in the hall and went to meet my sister. Ei I don't even know how to lie. She then asked me how come? so how was I able to meet with my sister? She asked.  I told her lies upon lies. Finally I went to the lecture and only to see someone seated  beside my queen charming. I needed to get a different place for myself. After the lecture I told Esinam my sister was not ready to come to the campus. So it ended there. In fact I thanked God within my inner self. I went to her place for our usual supper. At the time we got there, her roommate was also not around. Hmmm something happened.

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Episode 2

All these while, Esinam was  just studying me to see how I behave without my knowledge. We continued to live happily as good friends. We do share some important resources and show reciprocity as well as encouraged each other in times of difficulties. One day at her hall she asked                                                by me if I was dating. Hmmm how do I respond to this question. I asked myself. Then I asked her back that why did she ask? She said she just want to know since we were friends we could know each other better. My problem was that even though I had Mercy back home by then I had no hope in that relationship so I answered her no. She quickly turned to look into my face. At the time, she was preparing some beans stew which we would be using to take some boiled yam. She then asked if I had ever dated? Things were becoming tough for me there because I was not comfortable with her questions. I answerd her Yes. But why are you two no longer she asked. I told her she called it off and not me. Why? were you not caring enough? She added. I told her she cheated on me with my own friend that was why. There she was sorry for me but asked again whether I still loved her. I said no because it have been long now since we broke up. With a minutes or two of silence, she asked if am interested in her. In fact I nearly lost consciousness because I was in a State of cacophony. Already I told you am one of the shy guys. I laughed as she asked the question then I as asked if the food was ready. She said almost and asked why the laughter? With a bit of seriousness I asked her why she asked. She asked me if that was what I was taught from my high school to answer question with another question. Hmmm I just didn't know where to start. I said to her " but like i do not like and love you do you think I will always be besides you? " she didn't respond and pretend not to hear that. I went on and by saying "you seems different from other ladies I know. You respect, you are not proud even you have, you are God fearing and above all you seems to be very caring in addition to your beauty. " I added, "these are just few of the reasons behind me loving you " I realized that her face suddenly changed and somewhat becoming emotional. She turned back and said with a very cold voice and said the food was ready. She couldn't look direct into my face as saying it. I stood up from where I was seated and went close to her. I stood right in front of her and held her two hands. She bowed down her head simply because she was shy of me. There I said to her "Esinam, I love you do you also love me?" Eii this ladies face changed into a different person because I see her heart full of love and that inner feeling that boys find difficult controlling. She replied and said "Yes I do but promise you won't hurt me because I was hurt twice already. " I also agreed not to hurt her. We stood with our hands together for almost ten minutes then she said the food was getting cold so we should go and eat. I just couldn't help by asking for a peg. That peg led to a kiss but not what you are thinking. We went to eat and conversed whilst we ate. After the food she saw me off to pick a shuttle buss back to my hall valco. I became one of the happiest people on campus that day . When I got to the hall I called her to inform her that I reached safely. At the time I was at her place her roomates were not around. In the nigh we chatted on Facebook because watsup was not as popular as it is now in Ghana. She sent me some beautiful pictures and also told me a bit about herself. During the process of the chat my girl at home called. She said their church had arranged for a trip to cape coast castle so on their arrival she would stop by and go with me and that would be Thursday. Oh but it is this Thursdays that we do have our African studies lecture where Esinam would also be around. I told her ok but I would check my schedules to see if I could make some time for her. I was  beginning to become confused.

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Life on campus episode 1

Life on campus 🏤

Episode 1

People call me kruskal walis just because I was one of the sharks in my class during my undergraduate level. My real name is Edem and am here today just because of the kind of life I led on campus in those days. I have graduated from UCC two years ago. I read B.A Social Science. I was among the very first students to report to campus when school was reopened for the level 100s. That was when I had admission to come to the school some six years ago. On my arrival, I reported to the hall written in  my admission letter. That was Valco hall. Valco is known for producing industrialist but my case was different. Two weeks into my stay on campus, lectures started and I had an African studies lecture. Religion in Africa.  After the lecture I met Esinam. Esinam was seated besides me during the lecture. To be honest, she was very beautiful. I befriended her just after that first lecture. Esinam seems to be the shy type just like       myself so it helped. We exchanged contacts as I saw her off to pick a shuttle back to her hall. She was in the Marin city. ATL hall. In the evening, I called her to check on her and she replied in a nice way. The following day, she called me and asked if I could accompany her complete her endorsement  of her registration form. I happily agreed to that and met her in front of the main library. We went round to make her endorse her form at the various departments. After that,  we went to eat at the students market which I paid for everything. In fact I made her feel very comfortable being with me.  Myself and Esinam became very good friends. My initial thought of proposing to her was gradually down sizing because the friendship was becoming a Platonic one. I do visit her in her hall and she also do come to my place .I could remember that day that she slept in my hall but nothing happened. My roomies thought i was not a real man. They were like how could i let such an opportunity go . All these while, Esinam was just studying my steps without me knowing.

Watchout for episode 2 which would come tomorrow.

Why I can't love final episode

Why I can't love

Episode 12. Final

Francis became more confused because his life was at stake. Without that sacrifice, he will lose his properties and also suffer a deadly disease. He was rich but had no peace. My question is, is it good to be poor and have peace or be rich without peace? "Asem s3b3! Francis then came to me and said he wanted to travel to Ghana that very day. He promised of making his attendants take good care of me. I told him I will go with him but he refused. He knew I will never return. Honestly I wouldn't have returned with him after going through all these torture. He said he may come back with my mother. Anyway, that was planned so didn't object to it. He left me with some huge sums of money and away he left. His purpose of going to Ghana was to get my mother for the sacrifice. He came to Ghana for the first time to get me to complete his initial rituals. He has succeeded to some extent and now he needed my mother to get a 100% success. I knew my mother would fall for his tricks because my mother loves money. Money they say is the root of all evil. I won't be surprised some humans will choose money over heaven. Francis already had a green card so didn't have to go through any heckles before travelling. He left for Ghana. It now came to my mind to think of what I did. "Oh why did I agree to be part of the occult group? I should have allowed them to kill me. Oh my God. Meaning I must now do according to their will. Oh no!" I said to myself. My heart began to beat very fast. The reason why they removed my womb was that, that was what differentiate we women from men. So with them removing my womb, I became almost a man. There would be nothing like pregnancy. The eve of the day Francis left for Ghana, the doctor who did the operation came to the house. When one of the attendants came to inform me that the doctor wanted to see me, I almost asked the attendant to tell him to leave because I was not ready for any of their games. But eventually I asked him to come in. "My queen mother it is you I greet. " he bent down and said that. I never responded to his occult greetings. "Doctor how could you be so wicked? You watched your fellow human being in the face and killed her baby and doubled up removing her womb. How could you? " I asked. He was only looking into my face when I was talking. After I finished, he said "Madam Esther my queen, it is not what you think. I have a good news for you. " how can a killer have a good news for me. But wait, where from that queen thing? I am not your queen and I will never be your queen. What is it that you want to say? " I said with some sort of anger in my heart. "The womb you saw at the camp the other time was not your womb. I placed someone who died due to PPH's womb into the flask. I never removed your womb. I am a human as you said and i also have feelings for my fellow. When you were brought to the hospital that day, you gave birth upon arrival but because your husband was there and saw it, I had no other option than to give the baby to him to complete his requirements by our master. He needed the womb in addition but because we needed to do that at the theatre, we made him to go out. I asked one of my nurses to bring the womb of a woman who died after giving birth and went through severe bleeding and had to die. That was the womb we placed inside the flask. The master did not accept the sacrifice the other time because the genetics of the womb was not the same as your urine that was presented earlier. " he said. "Oh my God! This world is very dark. So that was what Francis married me for. Not anything but to enrich himself. He told me you needed my urine to test if I was fit for this environment. So doctor why must he do this to me? "I asked. " madam sorry but I just felt like letting you know the truth. " as soon as he had finished talking, he started coughing. The cough became more severe and what I could see was that he had started vomiting blood. I called one of the attendants to come and drive him to his hospital. On their way, the doctor died😧. As a commandment of the occult, a member shall not reveal the secret of another member. The punishment for doing that is instant death. The doctor knew this but came to report this to me. His death became a topical issue in the whole of Atlanta Georgia, US. Francis arrived in Ghana and straight to my parents house. He didn't even call them to pre-inform them that he was coming. He only went there to their surprise. As usual, he informed them that the wedding couldn't come off due to some one or two reasons. He also told them that my baby died after delivery at the hospital and due to that, I was very weak so needed my mother to come and stay with me till I become strong. On one side, my parents felt bad to hear that I went through that but on the other side, it was a joy for my mother because she going to travel to America. Francis told them that he needed to be at work the following day so they had to leave at dawn. To be honest, my parents would never miss an evening church service. In the evening, they went to church and this time around, as the prayer was on going, the head pastor point it direct to my mother that she was about to welcome her death. He said, if she obeys what the Lord will direct her to do to avoid that untimely death, it shall be well with her. In my mother's mind, the pastor was planning to stop him from travelling. They prayed for her and before they closed, the pastor told her to come and wait on the Lord at the church alone the following day. It was there that she told the church that she was supposed to travel the following dawn so that might not be very possible. She added that her daughter was very sick in America and needed to be with her the following day and besides, the plane ticket was ready. The pastor only said she should obey the directions of the Lord. My mother was very troubled. "What will it benefit a man when he acquires all the things on this earth and loses his soul?🤔 " My mother turned deaf ear to the voice of the Lord and at dawn, he left with Francis. I called her line several times but I couldn't get her. The same with my dad's line. How I wished I could tell them how dangerous Francis was. In the morning, my father called me to inform me that my mother would be with me in no time. I became worried and narrated all that I went through with Francis. My father almost went into coma after hearing what I said. He quickly called the pastor and informed him about what I said. Without wasting time, the pastor organized some elders of the church to come to the chapel so that they pray for my family especially for my mother who had disobeyed the voice of the Lord. They prayed very extensively for my family. That is a hallmark of a good church. A church that can intercede for its members. In the afternoon, a news came that there was an emergency landing by the Atlanta Airline 50C4 at one of the neighbouring countries of the United States specifically Canada which is to the north of USA. According to the news,there was a poor weather condition so the plane needed to stop at Canada. I knew my mother would be part of those on board. I called my father to inform him about the news. But we thanked God that it wasn't a crash. The deadline for Francis to bring my mother was that very night and that was why God decided to delay them. God works in ways that we humans won't understand. To my mother and Francis, it was a bad omen but to the prayer force mounted back in Ghana, it was a deliverance. A follow up news came that, the plane would leave the following day so people expecting their relatives and business partners should take note. Francis lost his hope upon hearing that announcement. It was just like missing the rapture. Francis was contemplating if his sacrifice would be accepted the following day. He called me on phone and informed me about what was happening on the way. He called his friend the doctor only to be told that the doctor had died. That even increased his anxiety level. Eventually, the following day came and together with my mother they arrived home. Come and see the joy in the house that day. My mother was so happy to be in Atlanta. She came to console me and also informed me about how the pastor nearly stopped her from coming. She said the pastor saw doom for her but she prayed and God asked her to travel because her daughter was also important. Anyway, we only thanked God and continued with our usual chat. I told her how I missed Ghana but because Francis was around, I couldn't tell her what I went through. Getting close to the evening around 3:30pm, we heard a very loud explosion from the secret room. The room Francis do refer to as "power room" we rushed out only to see the building on fire 💥💥. Not to tell lies, the fire service system was very fast over there. Before we could even think of calling them, they were already in the house trying to put the fire off. They did all they could but the fire burnt everything. His luck was that, the fire burnt everything beyond recognition like they would have arrested him for dealing in drugs. At this moment, Francis began to see the reality of what was about to happen to him. One thing for sure is that the devil will never give you anything for free. He gives with the left and takes with the right. Around 11pm, myself and my mother were awake just chatting specifically about the fire outbreak. Francis came into the room with three glasses of wine. He gave one to my mother, one to me and one for himself. Little did I know that the volume 10 I gave to the security men the other time was not finished. Francis added some to our drink. It is said that, "the knife you used to kill your friend will be used to kill you too." We fell asleep and quickly he ordered his security men to carry us into his car. He took us to the camp and blindfolded us. My mother was the main target so she was tied and placed on their alter. They did all their chanting and incantations. By the time they were ready to pierce my mother for them to drain her blood for the ritual, I came into consciousness. The concentration of volume 10 in my mother's drink was higher than mine so she didn't know what was happening. In fact we humans are nothing. My mother was just there as if she was already dead. The only difference between she and a dead person was that she was breathing. Hmmm God is good. Francis was called forward to come and cut the head of my mother. That was when I shouted Jesus!!!!! Francis fell to the ground and went into coma...sosk! The master of occult stood up and said the external powers were not ready to accept the sacrifice because the time elapsed. He then turned to me and said I should take my mother away. He warned that I should be careful not to reveal anything that happened there to anyone if not I will die instantly. He said the doctor died because he exposed the them to me. In addition to that, he said said Francis was not dead only that he went into coma. He said I should rather take care of him because he will be challenged with a chronic disease. During my nice times with Francis, he taught me how to drive so I drove my mother who had no idea of what was going on home. My mother woke up to see herself in her bed but very weak. He asked of Francis and I told her he was admitted at the hospital. She was surprised and asked what was wrong with her. I told her the thing just happened to him suddenly so they needed to rush him to the hospital. We went to visit him at the hospital. In fact I cried upon seeing him. We were told he has suffered a shock which has led him to getting stoke. So all in all Francis had stroke. In two days I went to bank to cash out some money from his account to buy something's to take care of him only to be told that his account was empty. I challenged the cashier that it was not true bit eventually it turned up to be true. Francis was discharged to come home so that he could continue treatment home. Talking was even a problem for him. It takes him about two minutes to pronounce a word which was even not clear. He asked me to forgive him. I said before I forgive him, he should confess everything that he did to me and my mother. That was when my mother got to know that she was very lucky. Francis narrated everything to us and in the same way that the doctor died,Francis did same and that was because he revealed the secret of the occult camp. The members of the occult group came around to perform their funeral rites for his body. They also gave us some huge sum of dollars to fly the corps back to Ghana for the final funeral rites. I knew they would say I killed him because I wanted to acquire his wealth so I recorded his confession. I played it to his father and because his knew what his sin was into, never said anything. He arranged did the funeral and Francis was buried. Before we left America, my mother and I sold his house including all his cars to our credit. At least I could use that money to begin another life. After the funeral, his father donated one of Francis's houses to me and one car to me. He said it was to compensate all that I lose. I became somehow rich but I promised myself not to get engaged to any other man on this earth again because I could say I went through hell with regards to men. Richmond used me as a sex maniac, William James was good but left me just in the middle of the road. His soul rest in peace. And now it's Francis. The wicked and devilish lover. I don't know if to say his soul rest in peace or in pieces.
In life, yes we need money but money shouldn't be our topmost priority. Let us avoid doing our own will and make room for God to decide for us. Marriage is a whole institution on it's own so it needs patience and prayer to enter. We don't enter into a marriage just because of the persons wealth. Parents should also carefully analyse the person their Ward is going out with and not just the wealth or academic status of the person. It is better to be an average earner and have peace than to be rich through unapproved ways and have no peace.

Do you think I should go into another relationship?? For me I don't think I can.

Thank you for following me.

The End

Written by;
JONES KWESI TAGBOR ®

Technical Producer;
Richard Damien Cypher Ayitey

Special thanks to;
📌 Esther Ayerh for the title "why I can't love "
📌Kwesi Mensah Moshoosho
📌Sarah Kankam
📌Richard Avedzi Cypher.
📌Edem Anani Quist
📌 Paulna Gyirah

Why I can't love Episode 11

Why I can't love

Episode 11

I was weak so I was told I will be on admission for some days. Francis left and asked one of his attendants to come and take care of me. At night, he went for the flask from his master and was ready for the sacrifice which will make him become the 'Supremo' of their kingdom. Now the consequences of they rejecting the content in the flask will mean he loses all that he acquired with the power of the occult. He submitted the baby and according to the leader, it was not complete. He said their main master said he could only accept the content in the flask if only he brings me to their chapel. Getting to that position means a lot to them because he will the commander in chief of the occult society in the whole of Atlanta so they were very critical about it. I was still at the hospital mourning my unseen baby. I couldn't just imagine how all those things could be happening in my life. How I wished my mother had listened to the pastor when he was talking about Francis. Sometimes we do think we know it all. Were do make up our minds even before saying we will wait upon the lord direction. My other made us go to the church that day because she wanted God to direct what we should do but she had already made-up her mind so there so there was no way she could hear the lord's voice. We should try and go to God with a pure heart and mindset. We make money decide what is right for us and relegate the voice of God. Francis became worried because he didn't know how to get me to their camp. They stored the flask and my womb in another container that was specially made for that business. The following morning, Francis came to the hospital somewhat worried. I thought he was worried because of the demise of our baby. I called him close to myself and asked him to give it all to God. I also felt guilty for the loss because I thought I could have done better to save our child. As usual, he also did something like consoling me. He said be couldn't sleep the previous night because he cried the whole night. After staying with me for about 30mins, the doctor came into the ward to check on me so that the nurses could also give me my medications. As soon as he saw the doctor come to the room, he approached him. "Doctor how is the condition of my wife now? " the doctor said I was responding to treatment. Francis asked "So when will you be discharging her to come home? " the doctor said maybe in two days. Francis was not happy with that idea. But the fact remained that I was weak and can't do anything to help myself. "Doctoh, I have a very good place in my house. I think you can discharge her now so that we go home. I will pay for your fuel should you come and check on her in the house. I just don't like the idea of my wife sleeping here again for another two nights. " Francis requested. " Sweetheart two days will soon be up and I will come home so don't worry. I am fine here and besides that too am not complaining." I said. The doctor did what he was supposed to do and afterwards asked Francis to follow him to his office. Am sure Francis was able to convince him to release me because he really needed me to be at their camp for their meeting that night. Would you imagine that all the members of that occult were prominent people at the Atlanta city of Georgia, USA? The doctor issued command to his nurse to discharge me so that i continue the treatment at home. The reason why Francis was also eager to let them release me was that he had only one day left and if they didn't see me there, the process will be cancelled and the consequences too will follow. In fact I couldn't move so he needed to wheel me to the car. They added the wheel chair to me. Eventually we got to the house. His attendants actually took care of me that day. I was home but Francis was still not happy. I called my mother in the evening after I regained some small energy. The first question she would ask me was whether we sent some money down to them . Because anytime we send money I do call to inform her. I told her I was not feeling well. She asked whether my time was due to give birth. That was when I started crying on the phone. I told her yes, but I lost the baby. "Oh my daughter how did that happen? " she asked. I told her my version of how it happened. To every issue, there are two sides. Yours and theirs. My mother felt very bad to hear that from me. She said I should tell Francis to buy her a plane ticket so that she could come and give me motherly care. I told her I will be fine but she was thinking I didn't want her to come so she said I should give the phone to Francis so that she could talk to him by herself. I called Francis and gave the phone to him. They spoke for about 10mins. After the call, Francis told me my mother wants to come to Atlanta. So I asked him what his response was to that effect. He said he has no issue about it so she can come. I was happy to hear him say that. In fact that gave me some relieve. I asked him when she would come and he said in two weeks time because the procedures she has to go through are quite complex. Around 11pm that night, Francis said the doctor called him some few minutes ago and requested for my presence at the hospital that night. He said it was very urgent. I didn't understand the whole situation so I became confused. It was time for their meeting and that was the strategy he adopted to get me to their camp. He dressed me up by himself and away we were gone. Our house to the hospital shouldn't take more the 10mins drive but Francis was still driving after 20mins. I asked him if we didn't bypass the hospital but he said we were going to the doctor's private hospital. All I could see was that we were at a very big building. He packed and asked me to remain in the car and that he would join me later. Before he got down, he gave me a white handkerchief and said it is a gift. That handkerchief was to sedate me to sleep if I should use it on my face. He left the car and went into the big building. You know new things are always attractive. I was having my own handkerchief but because I have a new one, I decided to use that to clean my face. As soon as I did, I started feeling dizzy . I was expecting Francis to come back so that I tell him I was not feeling well but he was also not coming. Eventually I fell asleep in the car. While I was asleep, they came to carry me, stripped me naked and clothed me in a particular long red dress. They also blindfolded me. They took me inside without my knowledge. They all went round me for several times till the drug in the handkerchief lost its sedative power. I became conscious but weak. They tied me to the bed I was placed on so I couldn't wake up. Then their master came closer and said " Madam, you are welcome to the home of the history makers. Today your husband is supposed to be crowned the Supremo of this society and also double his wealth. He has met all the requirements except that we needed you to accept to be part of us and also through you we can get more females into the society. " please what are you saying? Which society are you talking about and why have you covered my face and tied my hands? " I asked. He said I needed to accept what he said first then they wil untie me. That was when I realized that there was something more to what I was thinking. I said "no! I won't accept anything if I don't who these people are. " Your child has already agreed to the offer so we are just waiting for ur response. " he added. 'Which child? Do you mean my baby that the doctor declared dead is here?" I asked. "Yes he is. But dead. "Jesus Christ!! What do you mean. Immediately I mentioned the name Jesus, I felt some chaos in the room. There was a very loud sound as if the blast of a bomb. It was the flask. It got bust from the container and my womb and the baby became exposed. The master asked me to shut up. I heard Francis speaking and he said, if I don't want to go the easy way then they should take me through the hard way. "Francis, so you are among these people. What is going on here? " I asked him but he remained quiet. The hard way was that they will drain my blood from my system and use for their rituals. Francis came to untie what was used to cover my face. I was shocked to see myself in that place and in what I was wearing. They were all bare chested and only in boxer pants. "Francis is this what you do?😟 And what have I done wrong to deserve all these?" I asked. At times we need to be praying for our relatives leaving outside. We shouldn't just be interested in the money they will send to us. We need to be praying for their lives as well the work they do. Not knowing, after the call with my mother, she called her pastor and informed him about my story. The pastor upon hearing that from my mother, went into a moment of prayer for me. He prayed very extensively for me. After Francis removed what was used to cover my face, the master said he should pick a knife and thrust me with it so that they use my blood. I knew I was finished. As soon as he raised the knife, I shouted and said I will do it. They all clapped their hands upon hearing me say I will do it. The master asked if I was sure. I had other option than to yes I will. He then recited some incantations and called Francis forward. They removed the baby from the broken flask and gave to him to present to their main master. I was surprise to see that. He took the baby and dropped him into a container full of blood. After that they gave him my womb to cut into pieces and share to everyone present. "So Francis you removed my womb because of money? How do I give birth again? " I asked. The master shouted at me to shut up. I turned my heard only to see the doctor too among the people. "Doctor you are also here. " I said with more surprise, fear and pain as well as grief. From nowhere, there was a heavy thunder strike which shook the foundations of the building. Everybody fell to the ground but because I was tied, I was static. The things hanging in the room fell to the floor. Even some of them fell on me. Quickly one of them came to release me and said the ritual was over so we needed to ran out of the building. Francis came to carry me with some sort of speed and we left the room. It was around 4:30am that they finished with the whole thing. I changed back into my dress and off we moved to the house. Not knowing, that thunder strike meant the sacrifice and as all the other things were rejected by the powers of the society.yipee👍🏿 .. We came home and no one spoke a word to each other. We all went to bed. Around 2:00pm that day his master called and told Francis the sacrifice was rejected with no reason. Francis became disturbed. He asked for the way forward and he was told within 3 days he should bring someone from my family. Quickly Francis remembered the request of my mother. This time around they needed only the blood of the person. According to his master, he felt the blood from the baby was not enough. Francis became more confused because his life was at stake. Without that sacrifice, he will lose his property and also suffer a deadly disease. He was rich but had no peace. My question is, is it good to be poor and have peace or to be rich without peace?"asem s3b3! Francis then came to me and said he wanted to travel to Ghana that very day so he will make sure the attendants take care of me. I told him I will go with him but he refused. He knew I will never return.
He was making arrangements to get my mother.Hmmm, this life🤔. How did the whole thing end? Follow me to the next episode where you'll know why I have finally decided not to love again. ALL WAS  VANITY.

Watch out for the final episode. Stay blessed.